Following the pattern

"Most of us have a scenario in which we are engaged in sex. This scenario may be the favorite, could be commonplace, it can be very bright and attractive, tasty and tempting. It may be the best and have an unforgettable experience.

However, even in spite of all this, he remains a scenario. And, as each scenario, there is a framework - we know exactly how everything started, that will continue, and what all will end.

This habitual state of affairs gives us confidence and calmness. Nothing new, unusual and unpredictable can not happen.

But the price we pay for the favorite habit?

Imagine that each day you vstaesh with the right foot. Already, even, and do not remember how you had such a habit to stand on the right foot.

But every morning you wake up, stretch slowly and sweetly, turning on its side, drops a blanket. And opershis to hand down to the bed just right leg.

Then you slide that his right leg in tapok, sometimes even not noticing that tapok left. You are so accustomed to the fact that this place is right, do not notice that the sensations of discomfort.

Each morning in your life did not change. For a long - long time.

Convenient - no need to think again. All had already thought through and communicated to automaticity.

All, as always. And, you even do not come to mind, what would happen if you stand with the left leg.

Thus, you will not find long-lost dear heart thing on which you would be sure to come, Arise, you at least once with the left leg.

You would first, of course, chertyhnulsya nezadavshemusya straight day in the morning, and immediately the brain podkinul to you an excellent idea «Behold, I tell people, as with the left leg up». But, having found its finder, then overwhelmingly obradueshsya and think «it is necessary, as there are rumors of deceptive left legs».

And probably not tread on the tail of his beloved cat, or sleep faithfully POC. Do not come and did not remember how long ago you did not scratch him behind the ear, but because you both love each other.

And a lot of things will not happen in your life, because you prefer the calm newness and brightness sensation.

After some time, will start small, but very palpable apathy, when none of the old no longer pleases and does not bring pleasure. Well, yes - pleasant, but it was already a hundred times, but you can?

Then, if the situation does not change, could be a serious depression.

And then before you want to, not want, will face a choice - leave everything as is, or at least think about.

What happens to sex?

* To be continued *